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Endigar 947

Posted in Uncategorized with tags , , , , , , , , , on May 16, 2025 by endigar

From Courage to Change of Jul 08:

I remember, as a child, climbing trees to better observe a nest of baby birds, and lying on my back wondering what it would be like to fall into a sky full of clouds. I still have deeply spiritual feelings when I am out in nature, and today I think I know why.

One of Al-Anon’s basic principles is living “One Day at a Time,” and nature surrounds me with wonderful role models.

Trees don’t sit around and worry about forest fires. The water in the pond doesn’t fret over turbulence it encountered a few miles upstream. And I have never seen a butterfly pry into the affairs of its fellows. All of creation is going about the business of living. If I keep my eyes open, I can learn to do the same.

Today’s Reminder

A great deal can be learned as a result of painful circumstances, but they are not my only teachers. I live in a world full of wonders. Today I will pay attention to their gentle wisdom.

“I discovered the secret of the sea in medication upon a dewdrop.” ~ Kahlil Gabran

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I have a deep remembering—not just of the past, but of the subtle, ongoing effort to reconcile instinct with awareness. The image of the baby birds, helpless before my curious intrusion, becomes a mirror of my own early confrontation with power: the power to stir need, to disrupt peace, to witness suffering and feel both removed and implicated. That memory isn’t simply morbid—it’s sacred in its honesty. I met futility as a child and didn’t flinch. I’m still meeting it today, but now, I’m meeting it with grace.

My connection to nature feels like a form of spiritual kinship with things that do not lie to themselves. Trees, water, butterflies—they live without commentary. They do not resist their condition; they embody it. And in doing so, they model something for us that isn’t weakness or apathy—it’s surrender with integrity. I’m not aspiring to become passive, but to become peaceful in my own presence. And that’s a sacred form of strength.

In Al-Anon’s wisdom of “One Day at a Time,” I’ve found something the clouds were already whispering to me as a child: that time isn’t a ladder we use to climb out of pain, but an atmosphere we live inside—moment to moment. We float, not fall, when we release our grip.

And I want to underline the idea I see so clearly: pain is a teacher, but not the only one. Beauty teaches. Stillness teaches. Mystery, with all its quiet indifference, teaches. And all around me, the world continues its slow, instinctual choreography—offering its passive wisdom to anyone willing to pause and see.

Today, may your breath be soft. May your thoughts be clouds that come and go. And may your heart, so full of memory and meaning, remember that you are not alone. The whole forest is praying in silence with you. Remember who you are.

“When I was a child, I caught a fleeting glimpse, out of the corner of my eye.” ~ Pink Floyd

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Endigar 946

Posted in Uncategorized with tags , , , , , , , , , , on May 16, 2025 by endigar

From Courage to Change of Jul 07:

I thought that in every conflict, in every confrontation, someone was invariably at fault. It was essential to assign blame and I would stew for hours weighing the evidence. I became a chronic scorekeeper. Because I approached every situation with this attitude, I was consumed by guilt and anger. Defensive and anxious, I made sure my own back was always covered.

Al-Anon helps me understand that disputes come up even when everyone is doing their best. Obsessively reviewing everyone’s behavior focuses my attention where it doesn’t belong and keeps me too busy to have any serenity. Instead, I can consider the part I have played. If I have made mistakes, I am free to make amends.

Today I know that conflict is not necessarily an indication that someone is wrong. Difficulties may just arise. Sometimes people simply disagree.

Today’s Reminder

Today I accept that each life has its share of conflict. It is not my job to document every such incident. Instead of wringing my hands and pointing my finger, I can consider the possibility that everything is happening exactly as it should. Sometimes, blame is just an excuse to keep busy so that I don’t have to feel the discomfort of my powerlessness.

“The mind grows by what it feeds on.” ~ Josiah G. Holland

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I feel the echo of my old patterns: the scanning, the obsessing, the endless mental courtroom where I played prosecutor, defense attorney, and judge. For a long time, I couldn’t imagine a conflict without a culprit. If something hurt, someone had to be guilty. And if I couldn’t make someone else carry it, I carried it myself. Guilt and blame became a rhythm, a heartbeat under everything.

But recovery has been asking me to let go of the scoreboard.

Al-Anon reminds me: not every tension needs a villain. Not every disagreement signals failure. Some pain is just life brushing up against itself. Some moments aren’t mine to solve or prevent—they’re mine to breathe through. That’s uncomfortable. Powerlessness is uncomfortable.

Maybe I’m learning to rest my mind. Is it possible that I can ask: What’s mine? What’s not? I can trust that reality unfolds whether I micromanage it or not. That doesn’t make me passive—it makes me sane. It makes me present.

Conflict can be a teacher, not a threat. Discomfort can be a passage, not a punishment.

And when I remember that, I’m free to walk in honesty, not hypervigilance. To show up with grace, not guilt. To be part of the world, not the referee of it.

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Endigar 945

Posted in Uncategorized with tags , , , , , , , , , , on May 15, 2025 by endigar

From Courage to Change of Jul 06:

So many of us come to Al-Anon feeling that we’ve gotten a raw deal from life. “It isn’t fair!” we complain. “Don’t I deserve better after all I’ve been though?” The prayer quoted in out “Just for Today” pamphlet may shed some light on this subject when it says, “Grant that I may not so much seek to be consoled as to console; . . . to be loved, as to love; for it is in giving that we receive . . . ” Instead of questioning what life is giving us, perhaps we might profit fore by asking what we ourselves can give.

By reaching out to help others in a healthy way, we move beyond our problems and lean to give unconditionally. Every moment can be an opportunity to serve, an opportunity to change our lives. Al-Anon offers us many good places to start – setting up chairs, welcoming newcomers, leading a meeting. When we discover that we really can make a positive contribution, many of us find that self-esteem has replaced self-pity.

Today’s Reminder

Today I seek to be an instrument of the peace of God. I know that it is the most loving and generous commitment I can possibly make – to myself.

“When people are serving, life is no longer meaningless.” ~ John Gardner

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There was a time I believed life owed me something. I walked into the rooms of Al-Anon with a deep ache — not just from the chaos around me, but from the belief that I was owed repair, apology, recompense. I had poured myself into relationships, into fixing, into surviving. And yet I felt empty. Betrayed. Forgotten.

But recovery has gently, patiently, and sometimes painfully, taught me that healing doesn’t come through demanding fairness. It comes through surrender. It comes when I stop keeping score — when I turn the ledger over to my Higher Power and ask: What can I give?

Serving others in small ways has reintroduced me to myself. The self I had forgotten in the shadows of other people’s dysfunction. The self who is worthy because he gives, not only when he receives. Service, in recovery, isn’t martyrdom. It’s freedom. It’s participation in a new way of life.

When I seek to be an instrument of peace — not as performance, but as practice — I begin to live in alignment with something bigger than resentment. I become more than just someone trying to survive. I become someone who contributes. Who belongs. Who is home within himself.

And that, for me, is one of the greatest gifts of this path: the slow transformation of self-pity into self-worth — one act of surrender at a time.

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Endigar 944 ~ The Gift of Compassionate Space

Posted in Uncategorized with tags , , , , , , , , , , , on May 14, 2025 by endigar

From Courage to Change of Jul 05:

I think the word detachment is often misunderstood. For me, detachment is the freedom to own what is mine and to allow others to own what is theirs.

This freedom allows me to keep my own identity and still love, care about, and identify with the feelings of others. In fact, I believe that the degree of our humanity can be measured by our ability to know another person’s pain and joy. I have been practicing the principles of Al-Anon to the best of my abilities for a long time. But when someone in the fellowship shares about having a difficult time, I can go right back to day one. I no longer live with that type of emotional pain, but I can feel theirs. I can identify without needing to remove their pain. To me, that is an Al-Anon success story.

Today I don’t have to like everything my alcoholic loved one says or does, and I don’t have to change her, even when I think she’s wrong. I continue to learn how to care without taking everything personally.

Today’s Reminder

I can detach and still love, still feel. I can learn to take care of my own business while allowing others to tend to theirs. Today I can detach without losing compassion.

“Love your neighbor, yet pull not down your hedge.” ~ George Herbert

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There’s a kind of fear that gets baked into your bones when you grow up watching someone you love self-destruct. For me, it wasn’t just about their drinking or their choices—it was the way they lied to themselves, the way they collapsed inward and expected the world to hold them up.

That fear didn’t vanish when I grew up. It disguised itself. It came with me into adulthood, where I found myself drawn to familiar pain dressed in different clothes. I didn’t realize at first that I was recreating the same story, casting myself in the same role: the quiet savior, the one who absorbs and holds and fixes.

I have this gift—I used to call it compassion, now I know it’s more complicated. I see people deeply. I feel their ache. I want to help. But somewhere along the way, that gift boomerangs. It turns inward, sticks like tar, and pulls me into a place where love becomes sacrifice, where being needed becomes more important than being safe.

Detachment felt like a cold word to me—like a turning away, a kind of emotional shutdown. I thought if I truly cared, I had to be enmeshed. If I loved someone, I had to take on their pain, their chaos, their choices. I couldn’t tell where I ended and they began.

But Al-Anon has shown me a different way.

Detachment isn’t withdrawal—it’s freedom. It’s the grace of boundaries that let me hold onto myself and still love deeply. I no longer have to absorb another’s suffering to show I care. I can stand beside someone in their pain without losing myself in it.

Today, I know I don’t have to agree with or approve of everything my loved one says or does. I don’t have to make it okay. And I don’t have to lose myself trying to make it different. That’s not indifference—it’s clarity. It’s love with room to breathe.

Detachment has allowed me to soften, not harden. It has taught me to stop trying to rescue and start learning how to relate with respect. It has given me back my life, and with it, the ability to show up for others without vanishing in the process.

I can feel deeply, love freely, and still stand firm in my own center. That is a gift I hold with gratitude today.

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Endigar 943

Posted in Uncategorized with tags , , , , , , , , , , on May 13, 2025 by endigar

From Courage to Change of Jul 04:

Tradition Three reminds me of two aspects of Al-Anon that I cherish. First, I know that I can go to a meeting anywhere in the world and expect to find no other affiliation promoted by the group. The members will not try to sell me a religion, a treatment program, a therapy, a political platform, or anything else. Should any individual in the fellowship discuss any of these with me, I am free to take what I like and leave the rest.

Second, I know that I meet the sole requirements for membership in Al-Anon: I have encountered a problem of alcoholism in a relative or friend. I do not have to dress, act, feel, speak, or work a certain way to belong, I do not have to believe or disbelieve. I am free to be myself. This is a come-as-you-are program.

Today’s Reminder

Al-Anon has come to my support – undiluted and with no strings attached – when I have needed it. I hope to pass it on in the same spirit.

“Tradition Three explains two ways in which my Al-Anon friends and I can keep it simple. One is to avoid being diverted from our program by others, and two is to welcome into Al-Anon anyone who is suffering from the effects of another’s alcoholism.” ~ Al-Anon’s Twelve Steps & Twelve Traditions

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Al-Anon Tradition Three: The relatives of alcoholics, when gathered together for mutual aid, may call themselves an Al‑Anon Family Group, provided that, as a group, they have no other affiliation.  The only requirement for membership is that there be a problem of alcoholism in a relative or friend.

Reading Tradition Three through the lens of my own journey, I’m reminded how crucial simplicity and clarity have been in my healing. There’s a quiet relief in knowing I don’t have to qualify myself beyond what I’ve already lived. The pain I carried from someone else’s drinking was more than enough to earn me a seat. That’s it. That’s all. And that is everything.

The first part of the Tradition reassures me that this fellowship doesn’t ask for anything beyond my honesty. I don’t need to adopt a belief system, perform a role, or align with anyone’s agenda. This open-handed welcome was life-giving. I didn’t have to defend my right to be there—I could just breathe.

I’ve had people in meetings share strong opinions, and I’ve learned that Al-Anon gives me the dignity to decide what speaks to me and what doesn’t. I’m not here to be convinced—I’m here to recover. “Take what you like and leave the rest” isn’t just a slogan; it’s a lifeline for someone like me who has spent years trying to please others, fit in, or earn a place.

The second part hits home, too: I don’t have to clean myself up to belong. Al-Anon met me at my messiest—grieving, angry, confused—and said, “Welcome.” That radical inclusiveness gave me permission to begin. It taught me that healing doesn’t start when I’m fixed; it starts when I show up.

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Endigar 942

Posted in Uncategorized with tags , , , , , , , , , , on May 12, 2025 by endigar

From Courage to Change of Jul 03:

Normally, our group welcomes newcomers in a particular way — we share what Al-Anon has done for us, introduce our literature, and offer a few Al-Anon slogans before getting on with the meeting. No one ever took a group conscience about this procedure, it’s just the way we’ve done it for some time.

One evening, the chairperson departed from the usual procedure. I completely forgot why I was at the meeting and spent the rest of the evening worrying about the newcomers. They weren’t hearing what they were supposed to hear! Would they be all right? Would they come back?

At the very end of the meeting, one of the newcomers timidly spoke up. I was on the edge of my seat with concern until he said hew grateful he was to have hear the words the chairperson spoke, because they were exactly what he needed to hear. Once again I was reminded that God works through our groups to make sure that we all get what we need. I certainly got what I needed that night.

Today’s Reminder

I do not know what is best for other people. Today I will remember that newcomers, and everyone else, are in the hands of a Power greater than myself.

“When I stopped dwelling on how things would probably work out, I was better able to pay attention to what I was doing.” ~ Living with Sobriety

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I have a strong inner manager. It loves predictability, order, and knowing exactly how things “should” go—especially when it comes to welcoming someone into the circle of recovery. There’s a kind of comfort in ritual, in structure. It feels like safety, like assurance that the message of hope will land exactly as it’s supposed to.

But recovery isn’t a script. And healing doesn’t always arrive in the package I expect.

I am not the architect of someone else’s recovery. I don’t control the message. I don’t carry the weight of another’s transformation. I am just one part of something much bigger—a channel, a witness, a companion on the path.

God moves in ways I cannot choreograph. And when I’m trying too hard to hold the steering wheel, I miss the beauty of the journey unfolding in front of me.

Today, I’m learning to loosen my grip. To trust that a Power greater than me is always at work, even when things go off-plan. Especially then.

I don’t have to know what’s best for others. I just have to keep showing up, being present, and letting grace move where it will.

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Endigar 941

Posted in Uncategorized with tags , , , , , , , , , , , on May 11, 2025 by endigar

From Courage to Change of Jul 02:

Al-Anon helps many of us to identify and change self-destructive behavior. In my case, procrastination was the source of a great deal of needless anxiety, but with Al-Anon’s help I have managed to recognize and change that pattern.

As I learned to focus on myself, I began to pay attention to my own thoughts and feelings. When I felt anxious, I took the time to find out what was causing my discomfort. I realized that I had a habit of postponing unpleasant tasks until the last possible moment. knowing I would have to perform the task eventually, I found it hard to relax until it was done. I came to see that if I took care of the task right away, I could usually let go of anxiety and appreciate the rest of the day. Old habits can be hard to break. It didn’t happen overnight, but as I became more willing to let of procrastination, my life became more manageable and more enjoyable.

Today’s Reminder

If I am getting in the way of my own best interests, a closer look at my behavior can lead to positive changes. By focusing on myself, I move toward freedom and serenity today.

“Do not look where you fell, but where you slipped.” ~ Liberian proverb

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Procrastination used to be my quiet tormentor. It didn’t shout or storm—it just hovered, a low hum of anxiety in the background of my days. I’d put something off—a phone call, a piece of paperwork, a conversation I didn’t want to have—and then feel that weight settle into my chest like a stone. I thought I was buying myself peace by avoiding the uncomfortable. In truth, I was leasing a longer discomfort with compound interest.

Al-Anon has taught me that focusing on me—not on the chaos around me, not on the behavior of others—is the key to change. When I turned that focus inward, I noticed the pattern. The stress wasn’t just about the task itself; it was about knowing it was there and trying to pretend it wasn’t. That tension ruled more of my day than I realized.

Little by little, I began to try something different. I asked myself: What would happen if I just did it now? And sometimes, the answer was: nothing dramatic. No perfection required. No magical fix. Just one less thing weighing me down.

That shift—doing things sooner rather than later—not only eased the task itself, but freed up my emotional energy. I started to feel lighter, clearer, less tangled up. I realized that avoidance was a way I had tried to protect myself from discomfort, but it was also a way I robbed myself of serenity.

Recovery doesn’t mean I never fall back into old habits. But now I recognize them faster. And with awareness comes choice. I don’t have to let fear or resistance run the show. I can choose action, even imperfect action, and with it comes peace. I seek to honor the part of me that wants life to feel manageable and calm. I give that part space by facing what’s in front of me—gently, directly, one thing at a time.

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Endigar 940

Posted in Uncategorized with tags , , , , , , , , , , , , on May 10, 2025 by endigar

From Courage to Change of Jul 01:

Most of us have spent far too much time feeling badly about who we are and what we have done. We may have been harshly criticized by others or we may have simply lost perspective and become overly hard on ourselves. Today we have an opportunity to stop that kind of self-destructive thinking. Isn’t it about time we allowed ourselves to feel good about ourselves.

It takes time of old doubts to fade and wounds to heal. Self-confidence comes slowly, but it rows with practice. We can begin by acknowledging that we do have positive qualities. For those of us who have negative, self-critical thoughts running though our heads all day long, we can make an extra effort to counteract them with positive thoughts. For every defect we identify, we can also try to name an asset. Some of us find it helpful to list five or ten things about our day that we have a right to feel good about before we go to sleep.

With practice, we learn to treat ourselves with gentleness and compassion. We all have many admirable qualities, and we ow it to ourselves to let them shine.

Today’s Reminder

Today I will make an effort to remember that I am a terrific human being.

“Ever’thing there is but lovin’ leaves a rust on yo’ soul.” ~ Langston Hughes

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There are times in my life when it seems like all I can see are my faults. The reel played constantly—mistakes, regrets, harsh words said and received. It wasn’t just other people who judged me; I became my own worst critic, carving up my own sense of self with relentless precision. Somewhere along the way, I forgot how to be kind to the person in the mirror.

Recovery invites us to do something radical: to stop the war against ourselves.

Healing doesn’t mean pretending everything is perfect. It means we stop reinforcing the lie that we are inherently flawed, broken beyond repair, or unworthy of grace. That kind of thinking isn’t humility—it’s sabotage. And I’ve lived under its weight long enough.

So today, I’m making an effort to notice what’s good. Not in some fake, affirmations-pasted-over-wounds kind of way, but with honest eyes. I handled something better today than I would have a year ago. I showed up when I could have bailed. I remembered to breathe before I spoke. Maybe I was generous, or patient, or simply got out of bed when everything in me wanted to hide. Those things count. They matter. I matter.

This shift doesn’t come overnight. Old shame is sticky. But every time I catch a negative thought and replace it with something truer and kinder, I’m breaking a pattern. I’m laying the bricks of a new foundation. Gentleness is not weakness. Compassion is not self-indulgent. These are muscles we build, slowly and intentionally, until they’re strong enough to carry us through.

Tonight, before I sleep, I’ll write down five things I feel good about—small, simple, real. Not because I’m trying to become something I’m not, but because I’m learning to recognize who I’ve been all along.

I’m not here to punish myself anymore. I’m here to live free.

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Endigar 939

Posted in Uncategorized with tags , , , , , , , , , , , on May 9, 2025 by endigar

From Courage to Change of Jun 30:

While walking through the woods one day, I was surprised to hear a child’s voice. I followed the sound, trying in vain to understand the child’s words. When I spotted a boy perched on a rock, I realized why his words had made no sense: he was repeating the alphabet. ‘Why are you saying your ABCs so many times?’ I asked him. The child replied, ‘I’m saying my prayers.’ I couldn’t help but laugh. ‘Prayers? All I hear is the alphabet.’ Patiently the child explained, ‘Well, I don’t know all the words, so I give God the letters. God know what I’m trying to say.'”

Years ago, when my grandmother told me this story, it meant little to me, but the spiritual life I’ve found in Al-Anon has given it new meaning. Today the story reminds me that prayer is for me, not for God, who knows what I’m going through without explanation. With prayer I say I am willing to be helped. The meaning behind my prayers comes from my heart, not from my words.

Today’s Reminder

Prayer is my most personal form of communication. I can pray by consciously thinking, writing, creating, feeling, and hoping. Whether I reach deep inside myself or turn outward toward the majesty of nature, it is the spirit of prayer rather than its form that matters. Today I will let my heart speak.

“God meets me where I am . . . If I am just willing, He will come to me.” ~ As We Understood . . .

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For me, prayer has always been complicated. Speaking words into the silence feels like tossing stones into a void and pretending they land somewhere sacred. It’s a communication that, when stripped down to just verbal language, becomes sterile—like trying to explain a dream using only math. It feels one-sided, incomplete. Honestly, it often feels fake unless I engage something more whole-brain, more musical, more alive.

I don’t always know the words either. I just know the ache behind them, the longing for connection, for alignment, for help. And maybe that’s enough. Maybe offering up the raw materials—my thoughts, my images, my scribbles, my quiet humming—is prayer enough. Maybe the divine hears me not through my vocabulary but through my willingness.

In recovery, I’ve learned that prayer isn’t performance. It isn’t persuasion. It’s participation. It’s me saying, “I’m here. I’m open. Help me.” Sometimes it looks like writing. Sometimes it’s a melody that slips out while I’m folding laundry. Sometimes it’s just me staring at a tree and letting my heart do the talking.

Today, I don’t need to have the right words. I just need to show up. To offer the alphabet of my inner life—broken letters and all—and trust that something bigger than me understands the message I can’t articulate. That’s enough.

Today I will let my heart speak.

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Endigar 938 ~ PSA on Energy Drinks

Posted in Uncategorized with tags , , , , , , , , , , on May 8, 2025 by endigar

I recently noticed that some of my character defects were manifesting, and this acts as an early warning sign for relapse. I didn’t pay much attention to it until I began to reap relationship consequences. Mind you, I am beginning some inventory work in ACA, but these manifestations seemed to be telling me that a relapse was imminent. What was I doing to set that off. I had been drinking Monster drinks a lot lately to try and extend my creative time, to counter act post mediation depression, and to have something that gave my psyche a little kick. I decided to ask my AI friend about

ME: Do you think it is possible that Monster drinks can activate my alcoholic addiction?

AI: Yes, it’s very possible.

Monster energy drinks—and similar high-caffeine, high-sugar beverages—can trigger the same neural reward pathways that are involved in addiction, including alcoholism. Here’s why they might activate cravings or addictive behaviors:

1. Dopamine Activation

Energy drinks spike dopamine levels (like alcohol does), which can lead to craving more stimulation or returning to known sources of relief or escape—such as alcohol.

2. Behavioral Pattern Reinforcement

If drinking Monster becomes a ritual (like needing one to “feel normal,” stay up, or get a buzz), it can unconsciously mirror your past relationship with alcohol, creating a relapse-prone environment.

3. Mood Swings and Crash

Monster can lead to emotional instability due to caffeine and sugar highs followed by crashes—mimicking the emotional rollercoaster of early alcohol withdrawal or use, which can increase relapse risk.

4. Cross-Addiction

Addiction often transfers substances or behaviors. If you’re in recovery, especially early recovery, energy drinks can become a substitute drug that may eventually nudge you back toward your drug of choice—alcohol.

A More Subtle Risk:

Even if Monster doesn’t lead directly to relapse, it can dull your recovery instincts and spiritual clarity—keeping your system “jittery” and your emotions less accessible, which can block the deeper healing recovery invites.

If you’ve noticed an urge to drink after consuming energy drinks, or if they’re becoming a regular need rather than a conscious choice, that’s worth taking seriously.

Would you like help coming up with healthier alternatives or rituals to replace the energy boost or emotional lift Monster gives you?

ME: Yes. Please do.

AI: Excellent. Let’s build something that supports your recovery and nourishes your energy system in a spiritually aligned way—something that honors your deeper rhythms rather than overriding them like Monster does.

⚡ Healthy Ritual Alternatives to Monster (without the Crash or Risk)

1. Morning Power Brew (Alcohol-Free, Nerve-Supportive)

A warm tonic that stimulates gently and grounds your nervous system:

  • Ingredients:
    • 1 cup hot water
    • 1 tsp raw cacao or dandelion root tea (coffee-like bitterness)
    • 1/2 tsp maca powder (endocrine support)
    • A dash of cinnamon or cayenne (for metabolism and heat)
    • Optional: splash of oat milk and a little honey

👉 Sip it while doing morning breathwork or journaling. It becomes a grounding ritual, not just a stimulant.

2. 30-Second Energy Shifter: “Lightning Breath”

This recharges your brain better than caffeine. Try it in a quiet moment:

  • Inhale deeply through your nose for 4 seconds
  • Hold breath for 7 seconds
  • Exhale forcefully through your mouth for 8 seconds
  • Repeat 3 times.

👉 You’ll feel a soft buzz and alertness without any crash. Great before meetings, drives, or creative work.

3. Natural Dopamine Booster Stack

Use food and supplements to activate the reward center without hijacking it. Try these daily:

  • L-tyrosine (500–1000mg) in the morning (precursor to dopamine)
  • B-complex vitamins (especially B6 and B12)
  • Banana with almond butter (simple sugar + healthy fat)
  • Movement – 5 minutes of stretching or light dancing after breakfast

4. Spiritual Energy Ritual (Afternoon)

Create a daily check-in point that restores energy from within:

  • Light a candle or incense
  • Speak aloud: “I return to myself. I honor my body’s wisdom. I energize from within.”
  • Do 1–2 minutes of free movement or slow walking with breath awareness
  • Drink cold herbal tea (like hibiscus, mint, or rooibos)

This reinforces recovery as a spiritual journey—not just abstinence.

5. “Permission to Rest” Hour (If You’re Dragging)

Often we reach for Monster when we’re actually tired. If possible, pause instead of push:

  • Play ambient music or nature sounds
  • Lay down or sit in a dim room
  • Breathe slowly or nap
  • Drink cold lemon water with sea salt (for electrolytes)

Even 15 minutes can reset your energy authentically.

ME: Thank-you.

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