From Courage to Change of May 29:
Worry and fear can alter our perceptions until we lose all sense of reality, twisting neutral situations into nightmares. Because most worry focuses on the future, if we can learn to stay in the present, living one day or one moment at a time, we take positive steps toward warding off the effects of fear.
In the past, many of us tried to anticipate all possible disastrous outcomes so that we would be prepared to protect ourselves. But today, our program, our fellowship, and a Higher Power allow us to view this self-protectiveness more objectively. When we anticipate doom, we lose touch with what is happening now and see the world as a threatening place against which we must be on constant alert.
Most of our fears will never come to pass, and if they do, foreknowledge probably won’t make us any better prepared. But as we grow in faith, self-esteem, and trust in our Higher Power, we become capable of doing for ourselves what our anticipations could never achieve – taking appropriate action in any situation.
Today’s Reminder
Today I will recognize that worries can be potent and mind-altering. I choose not to indulge in them at all.
“I am not afraid of storms for I am learning how to sail my ship.”
~ Louisa May Alcott
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Miss Alcott faced her family’s financial problems with a desire never to be poor. She inherited an inclination toward perfection from her parent’s transcendentalism. Her mother equated the family’s poverty with the inequality between the genders. Miss Alcott never married and became a (first wave) feminist. She was also an abolitionist and a nurse in the Union Army during the War for Southern Independence. She indeed saw storms in her time.
But more than anything, she was an individual. Her writing helped her claim that reality. Most writers do what they do out of necessity as much as desire. Her developing individuality helped her claim her gift, because she was ready to let it claim her. The causes that she embraced were necessary for the exaltation of the individual. It only makes sense that she would be drawn to them.
The Twelve Step program helps me to recognize that I am so much more than a member of this group or that one. I am an individual and my manifestation as such will embolden others. When groups are dominant, individuality becomes a crime. The manifested individual produces the positive freedom that justifies the negative freedom produced by a group. Worry is the abdication of the individual to the demands of the group, whether it be family, religion, or government. If the individual feels the need to hide, the group has become an oppressor.
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